One of the most powerful words

Words Wield the Power to Create and Destroy our Lives

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I love words. Redeem, discombobulated, aspen, cleave, grace, actually, ravel, revel, truck, maybe, and ubiquitous are a few favorites that occur to me. The word rhythm thumps with a tongue-heavy sound and complex spelling that belies its necessity in our lives. Some words like if and yes appear short and stumpy but are muscle-bound in their complexity. The word God contains a whole universe of meaning a billion books have been powerless to abridge. Words wield the power to create and destroy our lives.

Even in nature God speaks

Words Wield the Power to Create

In the beginning God spoke eight times and created life so wondrous theology, psychology, science, and philosophy combined have yet to adequately document and explain it. Amazingly God gave us the power to create, heal, and recreate through our words as well. 

Hellen Keller is an inspiring example of the power of words. Though she remained physically blind and deaf life-long, she was able to see and hear through words Anne Sullivan taught her to feel. With Sullivan Keller touched “objects and associate[d] them with words spelled out by finger signals on her palm, to read sentences by feeling raised words on cardboard, and to make her own sentences by arranging words in a frame.” 

Later Keller wrote: “I can see, and that is why I can be happy, in what you call the dark, but which to me is golden. I can see a God-made world, not a manmade world.” Words made her sight possible.

Words Work Miracles

As Sullivan and Keller experienced, words heal. We can work that miracle too. Words act on all our senses. We hear sounds in them: snake, scrabble, and seep. We smell antiseptic, ammonia, and mold. We feel sandpaper and supple. We taste salt, watermelon, and rust. And words activate our sixth sense: we imagine blackholes, brave new worlds, and things that may never exist in reality. And above all, through the Word, Jesus, we experience love, truth and reality.

Eugene H. Peterson said that because Jesus is the Word, he defines all other words.  

This Thanksgiving, remember the words God and others have spoken to you to heal and recreate you. Give thanks! God calls you his beloved.

Today and everyday use your powerful words to heal and recreate others. “I love you” may be three of the most powerful words any mere mortal can ever speak.   

Words can destroy

Words Wield the Power to Destroy

But as T. S. Elliot wrote in his poem Four Quartets: Burnt Norton:

“Words strain,
Crack and sometimes break, under the burden,

Under the tension, slip, slide, perish,
Decay with imprecision, will not stay in place,
Will not stay still.”

In contrast to Genesis, in the 1940s several people spoke a variation of the phrase what if? and created the Manhattan Project and our ability to destroy God’s creation. History records evil ideas embodied in words that have contorted entire cultures and eras and have wreaked more havoc than even the atomic bomb. Empire, manifest destiny, communism,  mine, white supremacy, all have created mass destruction. 

On a more persoanl scale, in the eleventh grade I had dropped out of high school and while I was waiting in the other room for my high school girlfriend, her father said, “Once a quitter always a quitter.”

Quitter! That word destroyed me. I struggled to prevent its prophecy from coming true and staggered under its crushing weight when it did.

Most people have a word or two that was weaponized against them. Loser, ugly, fat, stupid. Or a word that embodies the trauma they experienced. Abandonment, rape, prejudice.

Another creation word

God Has a Creative Word for You

But it is just like God to use words to recreate and heal us. While I was in Navy boot camp, my company commander called me into his office and said, “At ease, Scott.” I slid to parade rest, while my intestines twisted like a snake. “I’ve seen your kind before. You want to blend in, not be noticed.” 

That was my way of hiding, quitting when I couldn’t escape. 

“But I’ve noticed you,” he went on. “And I’ve seen your G. E. D. scores. Those are not high school drop out scores. They are college level. From now on I want to see your work on that level. Dismissed.” 

From that day forward I began to grow into a new view of myself. His words created a new reality for me. It’s taken most of my life. But I’m growing. 

The other day a friend asked me to describe myself. Without thinking I rattled off creative, story-teller, naturalist, poet, and pastor but quitter and stupid never came to mind. Hallelujah! 

What words would you use to describe yourself? Are they words of God’s creation or words of destruction? If words like beloved, worthful, forgiven, beautiful, faithful, smart, and unique don’t come to mind, ask God to speak them. He will. But it’s up to you to listen and believe them.

Advent words

Powerful Words of Advent

This coming Sunday marks the beginning of Advent, another of those loaded words. It’s a time when many Christians look back to celebrate and remember Christ’s first coming and prepare for his promised second coming. Four words are often highlighted during this season: love, peace, joy, and hope. Over the next five weeks my Sunday Psalms will be prayers written around that week’s word. And my mid-week blog will discuss that word as well. My hope is that these prayers and discussions will help us experience the adventure of living with God in this season.

Fun words

P.S. I’ve found it difficult to write and publish over the last few weeks. COVID caught up with me on about October 27 and the fatigue and congestion, coughing have clung to me like an acrid odor. I am improving. I’ve returned to a limited amount of work. But it’s day by day. I’m thankful for every breath, even when they are a bit raspy. 

And I’m grateful for you. Your readership is a word from God to keep writing and putting my words out there. And when you comment or email, it’s literally encouraging. I keep you in my prayers. God bless and may the holidays be sacred, holy, and happy. 

For your further edification here are several prayers and blogs that may help bring sacredness to a busy time.

Advent: What Are You Waiting For? 

Transforming Presents into Presence: A Christmas Psalm

How to Marinate Not Microwave Your Christmas Season

Why I’m in Therapy. And Maybe You Should Be Too.

8 thoughts on “Words Wield the Power to Create and Destroy our Lives”

  1. Georgie Ann Kettig

    we often hear it said that “it’s the thought that counts”,… and it seems that it is the thought that is behind the words that is what actually counts, as well,… we don’t always remember, or even know, the exact source of entrenched negativities that may permeate our thought waves, but in growing up, we often experience certain repeated destructive “theme songs”, that definitely “bring us down”,…

    how do we respond to these things?,… usually with negativity, as well,… is it defensive?,… or blaming?,… do I want to give up?,… or beat someone up?,… do I succumb?,… or become aggressive?,… unfortunately, none of these things are based in truth and reality, even if we can’t see anything else,…

    “life” always hands us a “mixed bag”,… what we do with it determines everything,… I can only imagine how difficult it must be for a soul to “find its way” without some encouraging blessings and pointers as to how we can learn about Truth and the way God has transcended these inherent negative/(evil) complications that will assail us, in one way or another,… but without these pointers, how do we find the “way of escape”?,…

    long story short ~ the one who actually “sows this evil”, existed long before any of us were born, and is the real source of this infectious “inhuman cruelty”,… as we grow to understand this, we can begin to divest ourselves of automatically playing the accusing and projecting “blame game” (against others), as a way of trying to rid ourselves of our own “personal pain”,… and as we grow to learn and understand that the God Who created us, also loves us ,and wishes to heal and deliver us from negative suggestions, turned against ourselves, we can begin to experience more freedom from these cares,… as our understanding and self-acceptance grows, so will our understanding and acceptance of others be able to grow, as well,… it’s kind of “win-win”,…

    1 Corinthians 10:13 ~ “No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.”

    as we learn about God’s plans and provision, we can understand that He is the source of all we seek,… setting our eyes upon Him, in faith and trust, will free us from looking to obtain our satisfaction exclusively from the flawed “human realm”,… in the end, it is God Who will be seeing us and “judging” us ~ not “these humans”,…

    it is good for us to pray that more and more people will become “set free” by this understanding of their relationship to their Creator,…

    1. Happy Thanksgiving, my friend. I love exchanging words with you. Thank you for your thoughtfulness. I am so glad you’ve been set free by our Creator.

      1. Georgie Ann Kettig

        definitely, “Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours”, as well, Eugene!,… (-:

        I had a thought that maybe I could have said ~ not “these mixed-motive humans” ~ above, because this seems to be our collective problem,… we definitely “need God” to help us straighten it all out, and to ride the ensuing waves!,… it certainly is a “drama-filled” challenge, isn’t it?… we all have something to learn,…

        I like responding to the ideas you present,… interestingly enough, your thoughts almost always “trigger”, or activate, mine in some way,… but simply on my own, I’m actually not inclined to be writing very much down,… contemplative “day-dreaming” might be more like “what it is”!,… I think I usually call it “prayer”,… (-:

        I’d like to remind you about possibly trying “olive leaf” (from Vitamin shop-type places), to help clear up residual fatigue and congestion that might be lingering from covid,… I’ve been taking it for over a month now, and am definitely feeling better ~ less fatigue, and more clear,… praying for your strength to return!,… God bless, g

        1. I’ll give it a try. Thank you. I am honored that my words inspire you to contemplate and respond. Conversation–even online–is more powerful than we’d ever give it credit for.

  2. Bruce Dawkins

    Eugene it’s very hard to overcome those criticisms of our past, but we do. They make us stronger and hopefully better examples for for those we’re around going forward.

  3. Words! Indeed they can either create or destroy. I knew the destruction through my childhood and adulthood until I was in my mid 40’s when in God’s timing, I was ready to accept an attitude adjustment necessary to survive. Forgive was the key word to pave the road to a healthy mindset. Through counseling I learned the joy of freedom from the cruel words and names and thus realized who I am as a child of God. Did this revelation happen over night? Certainly not. It was a process of replacing a very damaged belief system with words of affirmation and pouring over Scriptures.

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